Writing
Carrie is the award-winning blogger behind Portrait of an Adoption and a regular writer for a variety of publications around the world.
In addition to being a regular contributor to US News & World Report, Carrie is a freelance journalist whose work has been featured in The New York Times, Brain, Child Magazine, Adoption.net, Psychology Today and more. She also writes her own blog called Portrait of an Adoption, which has followers in over 45 countries and is hosted by ChicagoNow, the online blogging community of the Chicago Tribune.
Brain, Child Magazine: I Had a Boy
Note from Carrie: My new piece for Brain, Child Magazine: "As we walked through the store, I thought about how simple and freeing my daughter’s answer was. In one sentence, she managed to dispose of the question that always stumps me. It felt good not to...
Huffington Post: Dear Children Riding in My Car
Note from Carrie: HuffPost published this piece I wrote about how IMPOSSIBLE it is to drive with kids in my car. Seriously, driving with kids should just be banned! Dear Children Riding in My Car,We need to have a chat.You have lost sight of my...
Adoption.net: Surviving Post Adoption Depression: You Will Be Okay
Note from Carrie: Adoption.net is sharing my piece about post-adoption depression. SUCH an important topic. For any of you adoptive mamas out there who are struggling, hang in there. You will be okay. “Jeanne Marie Johnson, 35, of Portland,...
Brain, Child Magazine: Trying on a Different Birth Order, and Imagining a Life Not Adopted
Note from Carrie: Brain, Child Magazine is featuring my newest piece on adoption. "I tell her, 'Very few people get such a concrete glimpse into an alternate life that they could be living. But you do, and I’m sure that it makes you have many different...
NY Times: How Do I Know What’s Bullying and What’s Normal Conflict?
Note from Carrie: October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness month, and I have written the following piece about the difference between true bullying and normal social conflict for the NYT. I hope this is helpful for all of you who aren't sure when...
Let Toys Be Toys: Bullying: the role of gender-based marketing
Note from Carrie: My new article for Let Toys Be Toys - For Girls and Boys on the role that gender-based marketing plays in bullying. Pink means girl. Blue means boy. At times it feels impossible to change this overwhelming cultural message.Has...
CNN: Not as simple as good vs. evil: Geeks take on bullying at Comic-Con
Note from Carrie: So exciting! My article for CNN about Comic-Con just went live! I can pinpoint the exact moment that put me on a path to moderate San Diego Comic-Con's first anti-bullying panel last weekend. It happened 32 months ago, when I...
Huffington Post: What I Know About Motherhood Now That I am an Adoptive Mom
Note from Carrie: Thanks to HuffPost for asking me to write this essay about being an adoptive mother! Motherhood is an interesting job. I find that I grow up alongside each child. Now, I am the mother of a newborn. Now, I am the mother of a...
Psychology Today: 10 Ways to Help Kids Feel Secure After the Boston Bombings
Note from Carrie: For all the parents out there who are trying to help their kids continue to feel safe and secure. Two days ago, my third grader came home from school and told me, “My friends are really scared because the police haven’t found...
CNN: Why telling bullying victims to ‘just fight back’ doesn’t work
Note from Carrie: October is National Bullying Prevention Month. I find myself citing this piece all the time. So many people just don't get it. Fall is upon us, and that means the school year is in full swing. Along with the stress of homework...
Psychology Today: I Had No One to Play With At Recess
Note from Carrie: Oy vey. Helping a girl navigate normal social difficulties! Stressful on parents! “How was your day?” I asked 8-year-old K as we walked home.Okay,” she answered automatically and then retracted, “Well, sort of not okay.”“What...
Sarah & Ian Hoffman: GUEST BLOGGER CARRIE GOLDMAN RESPONDS TO MR. HANSON
Note from Carrie: Check out my guest blog for Sarah & Ian Hoffman! Mr. Hanson asks, “Why is it the duty of the school… the taxpayers…the parents you’ve attempted to ‘rally,’ to devote so much time, effort, energy, money, and resources to...